LOVE OR LUST (DIFFERENCE)

In often times i am been asked the difference between Love and lust... I did some research and i mean extreme practical findings. So I came out with the following 8 point

Olodo #1 HOW YOU THINK ABOUT THEM
One of the main ways to tell whether it's lust or love is to examine how you think about their body, When you think about your crush, are you thinking about their body? Do you find your thoughts wandering to their curves or other attractive features, rather than their personality? If so, it's probably lust

Olodo #2  YOU WANT TO GET STRAIGHT TO IT

When you hang out with the person, are you trying to hook up with them as quickly as possible? Or is deep conversation more important to you? If you feel like you want to talk, then that means the emotional connection is more important than the physical one. It's love you're feeling.

Olodo #3 YOU DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE

While it is possible to be in love with more than one person at once, the person you're in love with should generally be the one that captures your attention completely. So if you're walking down the street and you're getting sexually attracted to random people walking by, then you're probably not in love...

Olodo #4 AFTER SEX BEHAVIOR

Your behavior after sex can reveal a lot about whether it's love or lust you're feeling. If it's lust, sexual attraction is the only thing holding the relationship together. So after the sex is done, it will probably suddenly feel like you're with someone you really don't care about. You probably want to get out of there as soon as possible, with no cuddling or breakfast. If this is the case, then it's lust.

Olodo #5 PHONE CONVERSATION

The type of conversations you have on the phone can tell you whether you're in love or lust. People who are in lust pretty much call the person solely for the purpose of arranging a booty call. Your phone conversations will be limited to one or two minutes, with little personal connection. If you're in love, you can't get enough of hearing their voice, and phone conversations that go on for hours are not uncommon. The same rules apply to texting.

Olodo #6 YOU WANT TO BECOME A BETTER PERSON

If it's love, all kinds of crazy things start going through your head. A lot of people make a real effort to become better people because of the people they love. Their love is so important to them that they try to change things in their lives - quitting bad habits like smoking, they start driving more carefully - in short, they value their lives more.

Olodo #7 YOU START THINKING ABOUT FAMILY MORE

People who are in love with someone often have thoughts about settling down. What it would be like to be married to that person, what your kids would look like, living together, and things of that nature. If you're in lust, those thoughts probably never even enter your mind.

OLODO#8 YOU WAN OVER FINE SO HE/SHE GO LIKE YOU

It's definitely lust if you feel like the sex is getting so repetitive that you need to get kinky to keep the relationship interesting. People who are in love can have boring sex lives too, but the difference is that for people in lust, sex is literally the only part of their relationship that is keeping them together, so without it, everything falls apart.